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My Father worked hard in everything he did. He worked hard, played hard, loved hard. He made more great mistakes than anyone I ever knew. He would smile at that sentence, knowing that the only way to make a good mistake is to stay in the game and to keep your head up. I think Dad would smile at that because he knew that a mistake well made ONCE can be a lesson well learned if you are paying attention. Yeah, Dad was like that. Continue reading →

Did you ever get well meaning relationship advice? One of my favorites is we never go to sleep angry. Are you kidding me? What does that mean? Does that mean stay up all night until you both say you are happy? Continue reading →

Call each other from work and make sure that it’s for no reason Go out for dinner and pretend it’s your first date Have a very romantic, sensual encounter without making love Watch your favorite movie together; a comedy, a … Continue reading →

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The other day, the Wonderful Marcia and I were downstairs watching NCIS and having a perfectly great evening. I went to the kitchen to get an ice cream sandwich, and when I came back, she said “Promise you won’t get mad, but I want to tell you something.” Now, ladies, just for future reference, if you are EVER going to begin a sentence to your husband or boyfriend with “Promise you won’t get mad but, “I think you can just about forget the rest of the sentence. Maybe you can forget the rest of the day. Continue reading →